Tuesday, July 12, 2011
Pregnant & have an unsupportive husband?
I'm going through a really hard pregnancy right now and I feel like my husband is being really emotionally unsupportive to me. I've been having to work from home because I've been to sick to make it to the office when my husband comes home ( he's only been working for about a week at a temporary construction job ) he cusses and yells about the house being messy. If I was feeling well enough to play house made all day I would be at work. Last night me him and our daughter were all lying in bed and I kept having to get up to breast feed her back to sleep, my husband then starts yelling and cussing about how he has to wake up in a few hours to go to work like ME putting our daughter back to sleep is rude to HIM! he keeps making jokes implying that I'm just being lazy or exaggerating. He seems to think that just because women in his family have easy pregnancies that he can't understand some women get really sick when they're pregnant. I said something about how my moms been coming over to take care of me while he's gone and he asked why I can't just get up and take care of myself. He also seems to think that if I don't have I fever then I must be lying about being sick. I don't love him anymore because all the times in my life when I've needed him the most he hasn't really been there for me. I've tried talking to him about it lots of times but he just says " what ever I don't care" and refuses to talk. I don't know what to do, leaving him when I'm pregnant would be so much more stressful but I can't handle how insensitive he is.
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